Life

Things will change for us if we allow ourselves to open up to life. I know life has dealt with us in so many a negative way that we are scared of opening up to life even for the things we know we make our lives better.


Don't run away because life has dealt with you badly before and you are so unwilling to forgive life and move on. Life does not "care" about you and your forgiveness - it will still hit you again and even hit you harder this time around if you allow it.


Forgiveness is meant for you. It is for you to become good and a better person. Whether you forgive life or not, it will always exist and keep doing what it has to do - bless you or hit you hard. 


In all of these - the way to grow is to learn. Learn from life and apply what you have learned. It is what you have learned from life that will keep you standing when life hits you hard again. 


Don't close up, but learn. Open up and learn whatever it takes to live the kind of life you dream for yourself. Yeah, I know you may not want to hear this but life will still hit you hard and that is the simple truth. 


We can all learn the ways of life and understand life better to develop a better life and to evolve into a better human being. Life works on principles, and whatever you reap out of life is based on the principles you apply and how you apply it.

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